A complete man

Fear Fear is not real. It is the product of thoughts we create. Fear is one of the basic human condition,programmed into the nervous system and works like an instinct.Right from our childhood,every one of us face fear.If we want to survive in this world ,we must fight against it.It is a signal given against danger and prepare our mind to deal with the danger. Fear has two meaning, 1)Forget every thing and run. 2) Face everything and rise.So if we want to rise we have to face  every thing in life.Fearing the risk, if we stay at home we will not come up in life. Actually fear is not real, it is merely the product of our own created thoughts.This must be understood and prepare our mind to over come fear. Types of fear:- Fear can be mild ,medium and intense.First two types can be over come  by positive thinking and with little bit courage.Here one must think about the advantages and benefits they get by winning the fear.For this one must develop the willpower."come wh...

A Our peace of mind is disturbed by three main factors.They are 1)Disease 2)Our associates 3)Wealth Diseases:- If we want to have progress, in spiritual life we must have a healthy body.The ultimate aim of human birth is to realize God.To have a disease free life one must follow good food habits.Eating at proper time and a proper food is necessary, which give proper energy  and thought. Food that is with vegetables and with necessary amount of oil will tame our mind and we will not  do arrogant actions.The mind will be calm.It reduces the chance of becoming obese.Obesity brings hypertension,diabetes and many more diseases.The mind in the diseased body is always restless with anxiety and tension.Concentration increases in a healthy mind and the attention will easily be  focused towards God. Siddars are the great exponents of various medicines. Extracts from various herbs cured many serious diseases.The ancient books such as Thirumandiram, and Thiruvasag...

A man good or bad want to enjoy happiness in his life, for that he goes in search of money,some go in search of a guru who will guide him to get happiness.But one thing that they forget that is peace.Where there is peace in oneself and out side he finds happiness.To have the peace one should have moral values.Hence if he want a healthy,peaceful society where he can live with out any ailment both physically and mentally he must have moral value.Peaceful society  creates peaceful nation.With more and more inventions,more and more gadgets  make the life simple and easy. Attracted to this,people want to lead a luxurious  and easy life.Hence the greed to earn money makes to forget and neglect all moral values.This disturbs the personal,social, and national life. Considering the importance of these moral values.it must be taught both in the school as well as at home from the early age it self. Some of the early moral values to be taught at home are 1)Respect the elders 2)Hon...

A teacher is one who helps a student to discover the perfection of mind which is already in him.His or her work is not to teach anything new but to help to awaken the knowledge which is already lying in his mind in a dormant state. A teacher must help the students to become resilient,creative and productive in the society. There are three categories among the teachers.They are, 1)ordinary teachers 2)best teachers 3)extraordinary teachers . Ordinary teachers:- These teachers are the institutional teachers whose main aim is to please the institution and the students' interest are secondary for them.They never care whether the pupils understand their teachings or not. Their duty is to cover the syllabus in a stipulated time.Preparing the pupils for the examination is none of their concern.When the higher percentage of failure is questioned they will answer with out any reluctance that the reason is the neglegence  on the parents and the students or the question papers are...

Today's children are tomorrow's wealth.Today's Elders of today are not going to live long in future, but they can lay the foundation for a strong and healthy society which in turn help to emerge a good nation.Future world will raise out of the contribution of today's people.These elders must mold the children towards their attitudes,values,visions and ideals.If we do so, changes will occur slowly though not in overnight.Once if the changes started to occur the people will think correctly,judge carefully and develop the courage to follow their conviction. Attitudes matters:-Attitude is like a magnet.Possessing good attitude attracts all positives in life and bad attitude attracts all negatives in life.If a child is helped to develop good attitude towards everything, then the whole atmosphere around him become a heaven.All positive energy will eminate. A child with good attitude will never find a bad thing in any person.In Mahabharatha duriyodhana was asked to find...

Too much of affection brings too much of  suffering.           Kamalam was a retired staff in a private company. Her husband Govind was working in a Government office.He loved his wife  very much that he did not give the least trouble to her.He never say any harsh words to her.All the house hold works were shared by him.While cooking he used to cut vegetables for her,washed clothes were dried and neatly pressed by him.He never think that it is below his dignity to washout the bathrooms and kitchen.While going to his office he used to drop the children and wife at the bus stop.If he happened to come early he used to prepare the coffee or tea.                        Kamalam too very accommodating and she used to give her salary to him. Govind never took his wife to the bank and how much he has in savings and where all the investments lies are never shared to Kamalam. Wheneve...

what is life? Many living beings are born in this world.Among all beings human beings are the gifted one. Why? It is only the humans who express their happiness through their face by smiling.Such a rare gift should not be wasted by showing a frowning or angry face.By keeping oneself happy many good things happen.First of all you will have good health and will not get hypertension.A healthy body is necessary to have a healthy mind.With healthy mind you will be able to take correct decision in life.If you are able to take correct decion in life much of your life problem easily be over come.The life with no problem or less problem will lead to the path to travel in happy mood.To gain happiness in life we must not have certain things.They are 1)greediness 2)Egoism 3)selfishness 4)Laziness . Greediness:- Greed is the excessive desire to own more not for the greater good but for one's own selfish interest.One must aspire to succeed in life but when one grabs the opportunities and t...