How to live a happy life
what is life?
Many living beings are born in this world.Among all beings human beings are the gifted one. Why? It is only the humans who express their happiness through their face by smiling.Such a rare gift should not be wasted by showing a frowning or angry face.By keeping oneself happy many good things happen.First of all you will have good health and will not get hypertension.A healthy body is necessary to have a healthy mind.With healthy mind you will be able to take correct decision in life.If you are able to take correct decion in life much of your life problem easily be over come.The life with no problem or less problem will lead to the path to travel in happy mood.To gain happiness in life we must not have certain things.They are 1)greediness 2)Egoism 3)selfishness 4)Laziness .
Greediness:-Greed is the excessive desire to own more not for the greater good but for one's own selfish interest.One must aspire to succeed in life but when one grabs the opportunities and the belongings of others it is greed.The ambition in life to achieve must not be determental to others or to the society.For example one may aim to earn to build a house or own a vehicle for his use. There is nothing wrong in it but when you plan to grab the property of your neighbor or expect others'vehicle to own is greed.Once this greediness enter your mind your health will be spoiled.You will get hyper tension,restlessness and so on.In case of failure in your attempt, you will be depressed, the worst killer.Your overly self centered behaviour,lack of empathy will earn displeasure and disrespect in the society.It will be very difficult to earn the friendship of others.Greedy people never satisfy with what they get and their desire knows no limit.They expect quick result and kick off the problem of others and extremely selfish in nature.
selfishness:-selfishness is the offspring of greediness.Greedy people are mostly selfish.This selfish nature ruins every thing,hurts others and have a negative impact on one's mind that they want to possess every thing which belong to others.Easy way to grab others belongings will be their motto.The main reason for this kind of attitude is their laziness. They are reluctant to do any hard work but once they get what they want, they brag and say that it was all by their own effort.However much we give to them will not satisfy them. They generally donot care for others need.The simple example such people in a joint family while eating never care whether the food left is sufficient for others or not.They don't show any gratitude for any help they get from others.now a days most of the aged parents are thrown out in the street or pushed compulsorily in an old age home against their wishes.Parents spend all their younger days of their earning, spending,and saving for the comfortable living of their offspring never mind of their safety for their old age,with because they strongly hope that their children would look after them in their old age.But what happens in most of the cases, the sons and daughters give priority to their own family rather to their parents.But there are few exceptions.There are people who look after their parents and keep them in good comforts.This brings satisfaction and happiness but on other hand selfish attitude never bring either satisfaction or happiness.
Egoism:-The worst enemy for a man is his ego.It destroys a good relations, friendship,and even opportunity.It acts as a deterent to progress.suppose a function is going to be held in a relative house and they expect you to render your help in executing some work, then they will be much pleased and your bond will be further strenghned with them.On the other hand if you think that by assisting them your respect in their view will be lowered and keep distance with them then you will be losing their intimicy.You may need some help from your friends or relations to reach the next step in your life journey but your ego prevents you from approaching them, then you may be losing the great opportunity.The ego disturb the peace,harmony,and happiness in a family, as well as in a society.A youngster may have a better idea regarding the family's progress but as an elder if you think that it is below your prestige to follow the instruction given by a youngster then that family's progress is hampered.The ego will not allow you to work under the person who is junior to you.Due to egoism you are becoming adamant in nature.Even if you know that it is wrong you will not accept the truth which will surely shake up the peace of the family. The egoistic intolerance surely bring catastrophe. Egoistic people constantly aims to achieve power and control over others,they always want to be superior.This nature only leads to the downfall of the human beings. The only thing we can do is to try and control our own respective egos and not to rule our heads.
Laziness:-It is a state of mind where you lack energy or desire.Due to indifference also you are becoming lazy.It is sometimes caused by external conditions also such as weather.It may be due to internal causes such as lack of motivation,an inclination to procrastination or fear.The greatest impediment for progress in one's life is his laziness. A person may have good skill in a profession but if he is lazy to work then all his skill is thrown in a dust bin.A lazy person procrastinate his work and it leads to failure in achieving his result. He start to blame others for his failure and justify his action.A lazy person depends always on others.All unwanted bad habits enters his life.First he start to tell lies and never attend his duties and claim his rights from others.He forgets that first by doing his duties only he is eligible to claim his rights.Not even moving his little finger how can he expect others to come to his rescue in times of danger? He finds umpteen reasons for his self sympathy.By being lazy he is not only ruins his life but also the whole family.
Hence if you avoid all the afore said qualities ans stick on to truthfulness and hard work you will ever be happy.Death is imminent for every one.After our death , how we lived our life, must be remembered and recalled by our off springs.We must live a life to be followed by others.
Many living beings are born in this world.Among all beings human beings are the gifted one. Why? It is only the humans who express their happiness through their face by smiling.Such a rare gift should not be wasted by showing a frowning or angry face.By keeping oneself happy many good things happen.First of all you will have good health and will not get hypertension.A healthy body is necessary to have a healthy mind.With healthy mind you will be able to take correct decision in life.If you are able to take correct decion in life much of your life problem easily be over come.The life with no problem or less problem will lead to the path to travel in happy mood.To gain happiness in life we must not have certain things.They are 1)greediness 2)Egoism 3)selfishness 4)Laziness .
Greediness:-Greed is the excessive desire to own more not for the greater good but for one's own selfish interest.One must aspire to succeed in life but when one grabs the opportunities and the belongings of others it is greed.The ambition in life to achieve must not be determental to others or to the society.For example one may aim to earn to build a house or own a vehicle for his use. There is nothing wrong in it but when you plan to grab the property of your neighbor or expect others'vehicle to own is greed.Once this greediness enter your mind your health will be spoiled.You will get hyper tension,restlessness and so on.In case of failure in your attempt, you will be depressed, the worst killer.Your overly self centered behaviour,lack of empathy will earn displeasure and disrespect in the society.It will be very difficult to earn the friendship of others.Greedy people never satisfy with what they get and their desire knows no limit.They expect quick result and kick off the problem of others and extremely selfish in nature.
selfishness:-selfishness is the offspring of greediness.Greedy people are mostly selfish.This selfish nature ruins every thing,hurts others and have a negative impact on one's mind that they want to possess every thing which belong to others.Easy way to grab others belongings will be their motto.The main reason for this kind of attitude is their laziness. They are reluctant to do any hard work but once they get what they want, they brag and say that it was all by their own effort.However much we give to them will not satisfy them. They generally donot care for others need.The simple example such people in a joint family while eating never care whether the food left is sufficient for others or not.They don't show any gratitude for any help they get from others.now a days most of the aged parents are thrown out in the street or pushed compulsorily in an old age home against their wishes.Parents spend all their younger days of their earning, spending,and saving for the comfortable living of their offspring never mind of their safety for their old age,with because they strongly hope that their children would look after them in their old age.But what happens in most of the cases, the sons and daughters give priority to their own family rather to their parents.But there are few exceptions.There are people who look after their parents and keep them in good comforts.This brings satisfaction and happiness but on other hand selfish attitude never bring either satisfaction or happiness.
Egoism:-The worst enemy for a man is his ego.It destroys a good relations, friendship,and even opportunity.It acts as a deterent to progress.suppose a function is going to be held in a relative house and they expect you to render your help in executing some work, then they will be much pleased and your bond will be further strenghned with them.On the other hand if you think that by assisting them your respect in their view will be lowered and keep distance with them then you will be losing their intimicy.You may need some help from your friends or relations to reach the next step in your life journey but your ego prevents you from approaching them, then you may be losing the great opportunity.The ego disturb the peace,harmony,and happiness in a family, as well as in a society.A youngster may have a better idea regarding the family's progress but as an elder if you think that it is below your prestige to follow the instruction given by a youngster then that family's progress is hampered.The ego will not allow you to work under the person who is junior to you.Due to egoism you are becoming adamant in nature.Even if you know that it is wrong you will not accept the truth which will surely shake up the peace of the family. The egoistic intolerance surely bring catastrophe. Egoistic people constantly aims to achieve power and control over others,they always want to be superior.This nature only leads to the downfall of the human beings. The only thing we can do is to try and control our own respective egos and not to rule our heads.
Hence if you avoid all the afore said qualities ans stick on to truthfulness and hard work you will ever be happy.Death is imminent for every one.After our death , how we lived our life, must be remembered and recalled by our off springs.We must live a life to be followed by others.
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