A complete man

Today's children are tomorrow's wealth.Today's Elders of today are not going to live long in future, but they can lay the foundation for a strong and healthy society which in turn help to emerge a good nation.Future world will raise out of the contribution of today's people.These elders must mold the children towards their attitudes,values,visions and ideals.If we do so, changes will occur slowly though not in overnight.Once if the changes started to occur the people will think correctly,judge carefully and develop the courage to follow their conviction. Attitudes matters:-Attitude is like a magnet.Possessing good attitude attracts all positives in life and bad attitude attracts all negatives in life.If a child is helped to develop good attitude towards everything, then the whole atmosphere around him become a heaven.All positive energy will eminate. A child with good attitude will never find a bad thing in any person.In Mahabharatha duriyodhana was asked to find...

Too much of affection brings too much of  suffering.           Kamalam was a retired staff in a private company. Her husband Govind was working in a Government office.He loved his wife  very much that he did not give the least trouble to her.He never say any harsh words to her.All the house hold works were shared by him.While cooking he used to cut vegetables for her,washed clothes were dried and neatly pressed by him.He never think that it is below his dignity to washout the bathrooms and kitchen.While going to his office he used to drop the children and wife at the bus stop.If he happened to come early he used to prepare the coffee or tea.                        Kamalam too very accommodating and she used to give her salary to him. Govind never took his wife to the bank and how much he has in savings and where all the investments lies are never shared to Kamalam. Wheneve...

what is life? Many living beings are born in this world.Among all beings human beings are the gifted one. Why? It is only the humans who express their happiness through their face by smiling.Such a rare gift should not be wasted by showing a frowning or angry face.By keeping oneself happy many good things happen.First of all you will have good health and will not get hypertension.A healthy body is necessary to have a healthy mind.With healthy mind you will be able to take correct decision in life.If you are able to take correct decion in life much of your life problem easily be over come.The life with no problem or less problem will lead to the path to travel in happy mood.To gain happiness in life we must not have certain things.They are 1)greediness 2)Egoism 3)selfishness 4)Laziness . Greediness:- Greed is the excessive desire to own more not for the greater good but for one's own selfish interest.One must aspire to succeed in life but when one grabs the opportunities and t...

A strong nation is one where the people are happy and free to express their views. It is the place where people have high moral value,love friendship with their neighbors. A strong nation emerges out of strong societies. Strong Societies comprise of good citizens with good character,good moral,responsible and committed,caring behavior.  Hence each society must develop good families and it in turn must groom good members right from it's childhood. In olden days India was known for it's glory.The historical kings like Sibi and Manuneethi were known for their justice.Even for the birds and animals justice was shown.They were so compassionate that they could not tolerate the suffering of those animals. Fair trade was there and so foreign trade flourished and the subjects never in in need of any wants. Emergence of good nation rest in the hands of the good citizen from whom good administrators come up. Pure,holy,and righteous are the root for the great national tree....

A Teacher A teacher is one  is not a physical form,but helps others to acquiretalented,enthusiastic,attentive,calm,cheerful,honest and cheerful.A teacher may be your friend,your relative,your well wisher or sometimes may be an unknown person.There are many teachers like parents,school teachers,social reformers,and religious leaders. knowledge, competence or values.As we come across the word A TEACHER most of our mind perceives only a school teacher , but apart from them there are others who emulate us in our life. As we grow we come across great personalities in the society  such as Mahatma Gandhi,A.J Abdul Kalam, Dr.Radhakrishnan,swami vivekananda and many more.Some help you to acquire knowledge,some help you to enhance your competence and some guide you to get your life values.Every one is sent to this world with all skill and the teachers work is to find out that skill or knowledge which is already embedded in man and help to bring it to the surface.As swami Vivekan...

Retirement Age:- The retirement age is a age where you can spend your time according to your choice.So  a retiree had to spend or divide his time for doing his duties and attending his commitment. In the earning period even if he or she is willing to spare his time to attend to his passion or to the activities of his interest he could not,because his responsibilities and duties stand first,but after retirement he or she can use  her or his  time in a useful way of his choice.For example if they  are theist they can visit their favorite temples or read the books in which they are interested in 0.It is all o.k only if you have good health.Hence keeping the body fit to attend to their work is very necessary.If they don't have good health they feel very insecure.That is why most of the people want to live in their own home where they can see and live with their loved one. Familiar people and familiar place counts much.However much they are rich they don't want ...

our enemies Lust:- Lust is a psychological force,producing intense wanting for an object.Lust can take any form such as  for sexuality,money,or power.Sometimes it may be for food.Lust is sinful.It is born of contact with the material mode of passion.Lust is an intense form of craving for something. In the initial stage it emerges as attraction towards something and slowly it develops as a desire or love towards it. Later it intensify as lust, a mad crush for it.In sexuality, it is sheer physical attraction.Here you are interested in having sex, but not in having conversation. Here this lust is temporary and if you come across another person as more attractive it shifts towards that person. They never share their feelings with each other and are not truthful too.In lust for money they never satisfy with the money what they earn and spend no amount for the welfare of others.They become misers.In this selfish attitude they lose their near dear relations. The lust for power make...