A complete man

What do  the old age people need? I s it money? wealth?or fortune or power?None of these? All they need is love ,affection, care , some body to attend their needs,some body to share their thoughts and give company in their leisure time, Expect people to treat them with dignity and respect.But most of the people do not get these things .Rarely very few fortunate of the family get these things and lead their last days with ease ,comfort, and satisfaction. What is the reason for this? People think that old people are good for nothing.They could not do any thing without the help of others.This comment hurts the elders most,slowly eat away their self  confidence.But for that reason some people become lazy to attend their own personal work. 1) How the people become dependent? when people have power and money people may come voluntarily to assist them and by accepting  that you are becoming dependent. 2) Due to the physica...

The word perplex means bewilderment or puzzle, whereas confusion stand for a situation in which people   do not understand what is happening, what they should do or who someone or something is.  Source of Perplexity is linked mostly with our material activities . To solve these perplexes one should have a strong determination and self - dependency . In spiritual matters one should take the     guidance of a bonafide  Spiritual guru,                                                                                                     . A spiritual guru can give proper guidance for executing the purpose of life . A person with the guidance of a proper spiritual guru, is supposed to know everyth...

Anger Every beings in this world experience anger at one or other in their life time.it is unavoidable and quite natural.A successful man knows how to transform the anger in to positive.This needs a little bit diplomacy and skill to handle the situation.People say that we must suppress anger to get success in our life Nay, I don't agree with this thought.Self respect is necessary to live in this society with dignity.Anger is triggered through others' actions and the words uttered by others.It need not be at you,sometimes volleyed at others. Even Government's policy and laws against the people may thwart the mass' anger which will result in revolution and agitation.Recently when the Government banned the the game Jallikattu in TamilNadu the whole state raised up and voiced up their dissatisfaction.In same way people in various organisations and teams agitate against the corrupt government and steps are taken to throw...

Why we experiece miseries in our life?could it not be avoided? It is all because of our Karma. What is Karma? It is  the result of your good or bad actions which are done by you in the past. It is a known fact. But the problem is how to avoid the bad effects of our karma?If we understand that there is a supremePower beyond our control, we can reduce these miseries . Let us call this supremePower as Ishwara. The humanbeings and other beings are Jiwas   3Prakrit is, this world.   4Time is unchangeable   5  Karma is changeable. ‌Ishwara is in every one's heart in the form of consciousness. So every being is a part of Ishwara but living beings are not  Iswara , because human is conscious only of his body , not everyone's. Where as  Iswara is conscious of every being. ‌This can be understood by simple example.A building collapes and many people die by trapping in the debris but among the debris deep inside ‌a child is found alive with out a s...

Main Factors that shaped Vivekananda's charector and destiny. 1)His innate spiritual nature or his awareness of his nature. 2)The influence of his family 3)The guidance of his spiritual Guru and studies. When he was a boy he was very active and mischievous and uncontrollable by any one. At that time  to calm him down, his mother used to drag him to sit under a tap and mutter the mantra"SIVA,SIVA".THE BOY AT ONCE WILL BE CALMED DOWN AND WOULD SIT  MOTIONLESS.From his early days while he went to sleep a light would appear between his eye brows and as he start to fall in sleep it would spread through out his body. He thought that every one would get that light before sleep.Hence he asked his friend whether he too get the bright light while he lie down to sleep.From his early age he had a passion to know about God.with his friend once he went to the upstairs and sat in meditation.They indulged deep in meditation.At that time a cobra creep ed inside.People shou...

                                            Swami Vivekananda's mother Bhuvaneshwari devi Ramprasad Dutta was vivekananda's great grand father who was an affluent practising lawer. .First he was an associate to an English solicitor then he practised independently.He was living in a palatial house with his family members.                 He had two sons by name Durga Prasad and Kali Prasad. DurgaPrasad's wife was ShyyamaSundari and their son was Viswanath Dutta ' the great Narendra's father. DurgaPrasad was not interested in household life, instead his mind was inclined towards sanyasa life. So he left home and adopted sanyasa life.                  He was not heard of anymore except for only one time.When Vishwanath was three years old his mother took him on a pilgrimage to Kasi. ...

Why India fell in the hands of the foreign hands? Reasons:- 1)Centralised power was absent. India was divided in to many petty kingdoms.Each one was under different rulers.They had their own laws and regulations.They were very weak and indulged in their pleasure.Welfare of their citizens were neglected. Common people were tortured under heavy taxes and the money was siphoned off towards the kings and  bureaucrats' luxuries.There was jealousy and hatred against each other and   integrity and co- operation were completely. In this condition the the foreigners who came to trade, easily overpowered the native rulers. The need for a Leader:- When an  organisation or institution or a family needs a leader to guide and lead them in proper path of growth ,why not a nation  need a dynamic leader to take the nation towards the path of progress and development?Leaders help themselves and others to do the right things.They set direction, build an inspiring vision,and c...