Anger
Every beings in this world experience anger at one or other in their life time.it is unavoidable and quite natural.A successful man knows how to transform the anger in to positive.This needs a little bit diplomacy and skill to handle the situation.People say that we must suppress anger to get success in our life Nay, I don't agree with this thought.Self respect is necessary to live in this society with dignity.Anger is triggered through others' actions and the words uttered by others.It need not be at you,sometimes volleyed at others.
Even Government's policy and laws against the people may thwart the mass'
anger which will result in revolution and agitation.Recently when the Government banned the the game Jallikattu in TamilNadu the whole state raised up and voiced up their dissatisfaction.In same way people in various organisations and teams agitate against the corrupt government and steps are taken to throw it off from power.
Bribery is not tolerated any more.When it exceeds,people's anger pushes them behind the bar.Hence with out showing the anger we can't clean up any administrative,executive and judicial machinaries.
In private life also when you are humiliated, you must show your displeasure and rebuke them,otherwise you will be ridiculed in the open society and your dignity will be challenged.Why should be like that?Are we born in this world to lead a pig and dog's life?
If not the Indian people's anger not mobilized by our freedom fighters is it possible to breath a free air and sit with our head upright in the world arena? Show your anger against any maltreatment your by severing the relationship and stay away.Whether it may be your husband ,in-laws or your own offsprings. The social stigma is there that you must live with the family even if they torture you mentally and physically.But once if you outburst with anger against the injustice,they may become quiet and behave and treat you properly.For some people the capital is their tongue to subdue others .
with raised tone they instill fear in timid people.This timidity is the greatest enemy against their dignified life.Fear about the society makes many dumb bound.If you are right, why should you fear?Once you show up your anger and prove that you will not accept the injustice and start ignoring the person and live your your own life people will automatically turn towards you and respect you.
In olden days Divorce was considered as a sinful word and remarriage of a divorce was very rare.But nowadays Divorce has become very normal and no one look at it with scornful look.If you don't show up anger,whenever necessary people will think that they can easily cheat you with raised tone and keep you quiet.Don't stake your self respect by being quiet at the ill-treatment and injustice.It is alright with when you are agile and strong.
But what about you when you become dependent on others?No problem.Develop your will power and be adamant and make them to understand that they will be benefited only if they treat you with due respect.All you need is that you must save wealth for your needs and don't be carried away by either honeyed words or disturbed by their man made pathetic situation to deceive you.
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