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What is the cause for desire? undoubtedly it is your attachment towards a thing.A child is born and it does not know who is it's mother and who is it's father.But it is growing up with the loving attention of it's parents.As it grows it realizes that all it's need is fulfilled by them and it is they who are the care taker.Now naturally an attachment develops on both the side.The loving parents think that all the best in the world must be given to their child.For that they sacrifices their own comforts and any success attained by their child rejoices them.On the other hand, if things turn negative,their heart breaks.Their unfulfilled desire or expectation leads to disappointment and dejection.If another child known to them achieves success,this disappointment develops in to jealousy.The mind craves that what they could not get should not be got by others too.In some cases they go to the extend of causing hurdles and harms them to proceed further.This bad attitude makes their mind restless and spoils their health.Too much of attachments makes them to excuse or justify their mistakes.They fail to reprimand their wrong doings or behavior.Whenever the time needs they must deal with them with strict hand. Without the parent's healthy advice and guidance the child also fall pray to evil thoughts and bad behavior. Thus the whole family is ruined.To escape this condition we should not develop attachment toward anything.Do your duty and don't expect any reward or returns from the receiver.If you do so you will not develop any desire or expectation.If you don't have expectation, there will be no disappointment.In many cases the unfulfilled desire burst out as anger.In angry mood we take many wrong decision and harm others in words and deeds.The relationship becomes strained beyond reconciliation. Finally the total happiness is lost.This human birth is short lived.Hence we must make use of this life a happy one by avoiding desire,jealousy,and anger.Spread the doctrine of love everywhere and embrace every one with love and affection.Develop the attitude of forgiveness.Then every one in this society will become your family members and there will be only happiness in your heart and no disappointment or angry.
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