Scandal mongers.

 We all know that  two people are not same in their character not only in the same society; but also in the same family. some are intelligent, some are fools ,some are rude ,some are dominant over others, some are meek and so on .In short  each people differ in their behaviors, Here in this blog let us discuss the people who intentionally disrespect you and how to manage them or put them at bay in entering  your life.

when you share every thing about the family matters they will start their play. Slowly you will stay away from the family members and start to suspect them. When your family members realize that you are not trusting them they start to move away from you. Taking this opportunity, they will bring you under their control. They start to dictate term for you ,and if you don't yield and start to question them  ,they will raise their voice and blame that you the cause for all the trouble and no one will have good relationship with you and and will blackmail you that they too would not help or support you. At this situation you must stand up fearlessly and get ready to oppose them. The following point to remember to control them to make further damage to your dignity and prestige

Don't show off your weakness:-_Generally at the time of difficulties tears roll down from our eyes. You must know the techniques to escape from it .For that you must move away from the scene of occurrence or divert the opponent's attention by changing to different topic. Your tears are the water poured to play more  and more in your life.

Don't expose your problem or difficulties:- To get solace or sympathy it is quiet natural for the humans to share their  problems. With out knowing their true nature if you start to shower down your problems it is that you are inviting troubles with out paying any price

 personal grievances are to be shared with your real well wishers and not with every one. Once others know about this it will spread like wild fire .Remember that all are not alike and you can't silence every one. 

Enmity is better than soiled
 relationship:-   Once if you come to know that they are injuring your dignity and self respect don't hesitate to cut off their relations. Face to face you can command to them out even if they are blood relations.\

Scandal mongers will put up leading question to know about the quarrel. Here only you must be more cautious in letting out any news to them and avoiding the particular topic.

In short before accepting any advice you must analyze the pros and cons and take as much time as possible before you accept.'

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